I can remaining calmly as possible to a grandmother and to their grandson and grandkids telling the grandmother they can leave bag of food crumbs on the floor leaving it anywhere. That they are grown and they can do whatever that they wanted to do at all. Telling the grandmother y’all are to old to be picking up behind grown kids that doesn’t wanted to clean up after themselves doing things for them all of the time. Talking up for them which that they can talk up for them own selves saying what ever it is that they needed or wanted at all. Like taking them to the groceries stores anyplaces that they go to at all. Getting it for them making they food for them not saying what ever it is that they needed or wanted. That they knowing how to do it for themselves if they are hungry making up they bed being responsible for them ownselves. Y’all are to old for that. And y’all say im stop doing things for them but you doing it anyways towards them. Like taking them to stores all of the time.